Speaking about reviews,
I was given a really interesting one by Alan Baxter. I now have a little trail of happy reviews. No doubt review websites will be tougher, if they review it all, but it doesn't matter: readers love my book and they're the bottom line, always. I care very deeply about fiction being accessible.
Why am I so pleased? Alan understood exactly what I was doing, and he said I did it well.
This is like the moment I read the conference paper Kershaw presented on Illuminations last year. It's not praise or attention that make me happy (though I admit I like them), it's the fact that people are reading and enjoying the precise things I want them to. My writing works.